Curiosity and Fulfillment

Curiosity and Fulfillment

The terms happiness and fulfillment (aka, life satisfaction) are oftentimes used interchangeably. By definition, happiness is a temporary, in the moment type of experience.  Fulfillment is more enduring and is a state of being that is developed through trials and triumphs, usually creating a new sense of purpose.

Fulfillment is passionately living a life of purpose and an ongoing pursuit of things that matter. And many times, is found through healthy relationships, an appreciation of ‘failures,’ and an involvement in something greater than self. Let’s take each of these one at a time.

Healthy relationships are primarily built through effective communication. This is usually done through a curiosity to truly understand and to be understood which requires an ability to listen more than speak.  In fact, here’s something to consider: if you are speaking for more than 20 seconds before another can jump in and share, you may want to fine tune your listening skills.

Curiosity can also be invaluable when it comes to the supposed ‘failures.’ If we are curious about why something didn’t go as planned, we tend to bounce-back, find the courage to take another risk, and then achieve it.  Thus, it isn’t failure at all but a springboard to success.

As for living beyond self, a fire is kindled to pursue what you have envisioned, when you ask the curious ‘what if’ question and then you begin to work on the pursuit – ideally, one that benefits others. The outcome makes you feel proud and satisfied that you've made a difference, which contributes to your sense of fulfillment.

Ultimately, fulfillment can be considered a product of curiosity, leading to personal growth, resulting in a life well lived.